I wish I had of kept my mouth shut, or do I?

Don’t lower your standards to match the conditions of your life.
Raise the conditions in your life to match your standards.
Don’t make anyone else wrong for not having the same standards as you—never look down on others.
Have self-respect and respect for others, simultaneously.
Have kindness, compassion and love.
Have poise, dignity, grace and empathy.

That said, what if things are workable as they are?

All of us in life have things which we want.
We don’t get what we want.
We get what we have to have.
We get what we are willing to tolerate —
Within ourselves;
Within other people.

When we are no longer willing to tolerate something.
That’s when our lives change.

We don’t do our shoulds.
We change when our shoulds become our musts.
When what should happen, must happen.
When it has to happen.
That’s when things change.
That’s when our lives change.

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